Hell's Woman

Dear all,


I watched a movie entitles "Perempuan Neraka" (Hell's woman). Its a story about disobey wife. Wife who control her husband. Never care about her husband. So on and so fort. However, that's not the main idea why I'm writing this post. 


What I'm thinking was, how come husband and wife is having so much conflict comparing with their life before marriage? Doesn't it weird? When they are in a relationship, everything are fine. Loving and caring like there is no tomorrow. But once they get married, they wish there will be no tomorrow. Why? hehe obviously I'm not married and I won't understand the situation. What I'm having in my mind is once you have husband or wife, you have someone that you can rely on. Comparing with  couple before marriage, there is term so called "responsibility". Do you know why it is "so called"? Because bf and gf are not oblige to act and behave as husband and wife. If he or she are husband and wife, they have and must fulfil their responsibility as husband and wife but its not necessary for bf and gf.


 Well, it is something for you to ponder. Let's say you are having gf or bf now. Are you sure, he or she is someone that you can be happy with for the rest of your life. Won't make you disappointed. Are you sure your bf can be a good husband and father for your kids? Giving good education, enough food, enough care, enough attention, enough time. Of course, are you sure, your gf can be a good mother and wife? Taking care of family even though she may be working, care about kids, give some times for you and kids, cook, ect. Or maybe your wife will ask you to do the house work while she is 24 hours in front of the mirror. Or maybe your husband will ask you to take care of everything while he is having fun with his friends?? Hmmmm