Dear All,
Sometimes in our life, we may get pissed off, annoyed, offended or touched by someone action, words or attitudes. However, we cannot control how people should react on us but we can control on our reaction. It is either mad, sad, angry or you can decide to act like you don't care about it. It is understandable when you put on your act skills to make everything look fine. How long will it last? One day? One year or one hour? In a relationship either couples, family, friends or undefined relationship should have elements of transparency. How transparent you are to your partner. In some cases, we rather be silence than telling the truth because it may leads to argument. The feeling of sharing everything happened to you with your partner may die when you are about to tell something but your partner seems not interested. It may getting worst when you forgot to tell your partner but you are quite happy to tell it to someone else. Does it consider as cheating behind his or her back? Rather than share it with your partner, you seems to keep it and let it go because you feel like your stories is not worth for his or her time. As a conclusion, never ever allow people to playful with your feelings and emotion. You should know how to handle when someone giving you shits. Shit happen when s saying hi to t. LoL.
p/s: fairy tales are lies but true love =D
3 comments:
I dunno what u're talking about except the last sentence, lol :D
- yes.. I agree when u say that we can't control people's action but we can control ours. Knowing that is the key to being more happy.
- that not telling ur partner about sth doesn't mean u're cheating. It's totally alright. In fact, it's better to share stuff to other people besides ur partner because, in life, partner alone is not enough. U still need friend, close friend, best friends, so on and on. U can't lose any of them. :)
@sopha: hehe emotional stuff
@sweetheart: I agree with you. partner alone is not enough...That's why I have one girl friend who always with me thick and thin throughout my studies in UTP ^_^
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